Newslink for Parashat Chayei Sarah (November 22nd - November 23rd)
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Announcements & Upcoming Events
Seudah Shilishit is sponsored by Adam and Flo Shulman for the yarzheit of Adam’s mother, Linda Shulman, Leah Bat Ephraim.
Women's Halacha Shiur: Thursday, November 21st at 8:00pm in the SOI Chapel. Studying the Laws of Shabbat with Rabbi Davies.
Scholar In Residence Friday Night Dinner: Congregation Sons of Israel welcomes Rabbi Yitzchak Etshalom as Scholar in Residence, Shabbat Parshat Chayei Sarah, November 22 - 23rd. Please note that Friday Night Dinner is exclusively for registered attendees.Click here for a full schedule of learning opportunities. To learn more about Rabbi Etshalom, please click here.
Kids Musical Havdallah: Motzai Shabbat Saturday, November 23rd 6:15-7:00pm. Geared towards ages 0-10, but all are welcome.
Gemara Shiur with Jeff Schwartz: Sunday evening, at 7:30 pm in the SOI Chapel. Come join for an in depth study of Talmud.
Semichas Chaver Program: New Topic: Business Law, Wednesday, November 27th at 8:00pm. Contact Rabbi Davies to participate or for more information.
Women's Weekly Parsha Discussion: Wednesday evening, November 27th from 8:30-8:45pm. Join us on Zoom for a brief peer led discussion on the weekly parsha. Click Here to Join the Zoom.
Rabbi Kelemen's Inner Circle: Next session will be on Motzai Shabbat, December 14th and Monday, December 16th.You can attend one, the other, or both. Master your most important relationships — with your spouse, your kids, and God — with a proven, Torah-based personal development system from international mussar teacher Rabbi Lawrence Kelemen. Missed the first sessions? Click here to receive Rabbi Kelemen's first few presentations. Join the Shnayim Mikra Initiative! Become part of our expanding group dedicated to daily study of the weekly Parsha. Choose between in-person morning sessions or follow along with recordings on WhatsApp. Click here to join the WhatsApp group. For more information contact Rabbi Davies.
Schedule for the Weekend
Erev Shabbat, November 22 (Cheshvan 21) 6:45am Shacharit 8:15am Shacharit 4:20pm Candle Lighting 4:20pm Mincha/Kabbalat Shabbat/Maariv 5:30pm Scholar in Residence Dinner with Rabbi Etshalom. (Please note that this event is exclusively for registered attendees). 7:00pm Shiur by Rabbi Etshalom: The slave and the Suitor: A Different Point of View. (All are invited to attend) Shabbat, November 23: Chayei Sara (Cheshvan 22) 8:00am 8AM Minyan 8:30am Sephardic Minyan 9:00am Main Sanctuary Minyan 9:21am Latest Shema 10:00am Youth Groups 10:30am Tot Shabbat Drasha with Rabbi Etshalom 4:00pm Mincha 4:00pm Teen Minyan 4:30pm Seudah Shlishit with Shiur entitlled - Why Esav? 5:20pm Maariv 5:22pm Havdalah 6:00pm Kids Musical Havdallah 7:30pm Special session with Rabbi Etshalom for local educators - Ethical Challenges in Teaching Beresheet: Anochi Esav Bechorecha
Sunday, November 24 (Cheshvan 23) 7:00am Shacharit 8:00am Shacharit 4:20pm Mincha/Maariv 7:30pm In Depth Gemara Shiur
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I am very excited for the opportunity to share words of Torah with you. Each week, in this spot, I look to share an idea I've found that speaks to me and that I think will resonate with you as well. This week, I share with you an article by Rabbi Shraga Simmons entitled "Greatest Test of All" giving us another interpretation as to what was the final test for Avraham Avinu and why.
At the beginning of Parshat Chayei Sarah, we find Abraham in an extremely difficult situation. He has just gone through the enormous stress of binding his son Isaac on the altar, followed by the emotional release of God's instruction not to go through with it in the end! To compound his stress, Abraham returns home to find that his beloved wife Sarah has passed away. And on top of it all, Abraham now has to buy a gravesite from a man named Efron, who takes advantage of Abraham and charges an exorbitant price.
This is the epitome of a "bad day." And Abraham has every excuse in the world to be aggravated, to lose patience, and to lash out at Efron. But Abraham - the expert in kindness - treats Efron with all the honor and dignity. Abraham understood that just because you're in pain, it doesn't give you the right to make the other person suffer.
The Talmud says that God gave Abraham 10 tests of character. It is generally understood that these tests were all designed to go against Abraham's natural inclination toward kindness - in order to strengthen his "weaker side" of strictness. Thus the ultimate test was the antithesis of kindness, the binding of Isaac. But one commentator, Rabbeinu Yona, says that buying the gravesite from Efron - where Abraham reached super-human heights of patience and kindness - was actually Abraham's greatest test of all.
The idea is that to become a truly great person, besides working on our weak areas, we mustn't forget to build our unique strengths, too.
Website Update: We are pleased to share that thanks to a grant from the Jewish Community Foundation of Southern New Jersey, SOI will be redesigning our website. As a ShulCloud-based site, updates take place in real time. This means that users will see updates to the design, navigation, and pages as they take place in all phases of the project, rather than only once the project is completed. It may take a few months for the website to display in its final form. We look forward to our site being easier to navigate for our members and better communicate what we offer to those seeking information about SOI. We appreciate your patience throughout this process!
Congregation Sons of Israel wishes a hearty Mazal Tov to Yaakov & Avital Zeffren, big sister Penny, and big brothers Aaron and Johnny on the birth of Sara Shoshana (Lily) Zeffren
Thank you to all the volunteers who helped with last week's Kiddush.
Thank you to Eric Klein, Jonathan Delman, Matti Rosenberg, Aharon Yeres, and Yaakov Zeffren for helping with last weeks Seudah Shlishit.
Thank you to Duke McCarthy for sponsoring Wednesday evening's Semichas Chaver Class, dedicated for Rabbi Davies, Dave Shatz, Sid Goldberg, Jeff Schwartz, Alan Friedman, Aaron Moses, all IDF and US Marine soldiers ever, all Jews throughout the world ever, and all participants at the class. Bless Abraham, father of Isaac, and Jacob, son of Isaac, and their families for all good things!
Thank you to Team 8 (Gila Davis, Nancy Bleiberg), Debbie Fineberg, Bob Belfer, Jeff Liss, JFed Security Officer Bill DiCola and Sam Tilonsky for providing security on Shabbos.
Security Training Twenty (20) people attended the security training presented by JFed Security on Monday evening. The training included many different topics including greeter placement, situational awareness and The Power of Hello. Thank you to Sean Redmond for presenting and to Donna Moskowitz for arranging this training. Look for more security training in the future.
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