Newslink for Shabbat Mevarchim Parasha Chayei Sara (November 14th - November 16th)
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Announcements & Upcoming Events
8am Kiddush is sponsored by Adam & Flo Shulman in honor of Adam’s mother’s yartzeit, Leah bat Ephraim.
It is also generously sponsored by Aaron & Elyse Greenberg in honor of anniversary of their son Dovid's Bar Mitzvah.
Seudah Shlishit is sponsored by Adam & Flo Shulman in honor of Adam’s mother’s yartzeit, Leah bat Ephraim
Kids Musical Havdallah:Motzai Shabbat Saturday, November 15th from 6:00pm - 7:00pm. Geared towards ages 0-10, but all are welcome.
Clothing Drive for Israel: In collaboration with Yad Leah. Sunday, November 16th at 10:00am - 1:00pm at SOI. Preregistration is required. Click hereto register.
Vintage Event - Mosaic Craft Workshop: Sunday, November 16th at 7:00pm. Now open to ALL adults! Unleash your creativity at our Mosaic Craft Workshop, led by the talented Rena Fruchter! Join for an evening of artistic fun as you design your own mosaic mirror. Price is $36 per person. To RSVP, call/text Joyce Joseph at 609-471-2770.
Gemara Shiur with Jeff Schwartz: Sunday evenings at 7:30pm in the SOI Chapel. Come join for an in depth study of Talmud. Rabbi Kelemen's Inner Circle:Monday, November 17th. Join SOI's very own Mussar Vaad, studying Rav Shlomo Wolbe's Alei Shor and working on improving ourselves. Monday evenings at 8pm.
Semichas Chaver Program:Wednesday, November 19th at 8pm. New and exciting topic: Studying the laws of Basar B'Chalav. Come and join this international program!
Be Your Own Advocate - Bikur Cholim Event: Wednesday, November 19th at 7:30pm. Join us for a public health lecture organized by Cherry Hill Bikur Cholim at SOI, with speaker Bob Kieserman. Light refreshments will be served.
Women's Halacha Shiur: Thursday, November 20th at 8:00pm in the SOI Chapel. Studying the Laws of Shabbat with Rabbi Davies. Scholar in Residence with Rabbanit Noa Lewis: November 21st-22nd at SOI. Inspirational presentations throughout Shabbat sharing Torah and experiences from Israel.Generously sponsored by the Zichron Aryeh Visiting Scholar Series Fund. Click here for the full schedule. Registration for Friday night dinner is now closed. Save the Date - Women's craft night with Atara Paris: December 6th at 8:00pm at Sons of Israel. More information to follow.
Coffee with the Rabbi: Whether you have a burning question, seek guidance, or just want to chat, this is the perfect opportunity. Secure a cup of coffee (or tea), and your 30-minute one-on-one slot for a conversation with Rabbi Davies. Click here to reserve your slot.
Join the Shnayim Mikra Initiative! Become part of our expanding group dedicated to daily study of the weekly Parsha. Choose between in-person morning sessions or follow along with recordings on WhatsApp. With the new cycle, we've added a ten minute review of Rashi's commentary on the daily Aliyah. Click here to join the WhatsApp group. For more information contact Rabbi Davies.
Shabbat, November 15: Shabbat Mevarchim, Chayei Sara (Cheshvan 24) 8:00am 8AM Minyan 8:30am Sephardic Minyan 9:00am Main Sanctuary Minyan 9:15am Latest Shema 10:00am Youth Groups 10:30am Tot Shabbat 4:10pm Teen Minyan 4:10pm Mincha 4:35pm Seudah Shlishit 5:25pm Maariv 5:27pm Havdalah 6:00pm Kids Musical Havdallah with Rabbi Davies
Sunday, November 16 (Cheshvan 25) 7:00am Shacharit 8:00am Shacharit 10:00am Clothing Drive at SOI 4:25pm Mincha/Maariv 7:00pm Vintage Mosaic Crafting Night 7:30pm In Depth Gemara Shiur
I am very excited for the opportunity to share words of Torah with you. Each week, in this spot, I look to share an idea I've found that speaks to me and that I think will resonate with you as well. This week, I share with you an excerpt from an article by Rabbi Noah Weinberg Z"L entitled "The Imprint of One Act" describing the impact that even a single action can have.
His beloved wife Sarah has just died, and after eulogizing her, Avraham wants to give her a fitting burial. But first he has to contend with the children of Cheis, the Hittites, and the greedy, manipulative Ephron, in order to acquire a suitable burial plot. If you look at the entire chapter carefully, you will see that one group of people is mentioned repeatedly: Avraham rose up from the presence of his dead, and spoke to the children of Cheis… [...] The Torah is very exact; there are no extra letters or words. The repetition of the words bnei Cheis, the children of Cheis, is striking – they are mentioned nine times here in this week’s Torah portion, and once later on in Parashat Vayechi (49:32). We know who the people in this story are. Why repeat their names ten times?
The Midrash explains: “Rabbi Elazar said: How much ink is spilled, and how many quills are broken, in order to write ‘the children of Cheis’! Ten times [the Torah] writes, ‘the children of Cheis, the children of Cheis.’ These ten mentions correspond to the Ten Commandments, in order to teach you that whoever assists in the business dealings of a righteous person, it is considered as though he has fulfilled the Ten Commandments” (Bereishis Rabbah 58:8). [...]
The Midrash is pointing out that one act can make history. The Hittites were a fierce nation whom everyone feared (according to some commentaries, the name “Cheis” comes from the Hebrew word for “fear”). Despite their barbaric nature, the children of Cheis helped Abraham acquire the Cave of the Patriarchs from Ephron. They did one good deed – they helped a tzaddik, a righteous person whom they recognized as a "Nesi Elokim," a prince of God. On account of this single action, they are considered to have fulfilled the Ten Commandments. What does that mean? It signifies that they made their life worth living.
Through one deed, a person can impact the world in a way that justifies his existence and makes him worthy of being remembered for all of eternity. He can make his mark in history. [...] The fact that you did something heroic does not mean you can now stop living, or that you have attained greatness. There is always so much more to accomplish in life. Yet you recognize that you did something that will forever give meaning to your existence. [...] We all have opportunities every single day to add immeasurable meaning to our lives and the lives of those around us. But to access them we have to be alert. We may not even realize at the time just how consequential a single act could be. [...]
History is being made every day, and each one of us has the opportunity to leave our imprint for eternity. How? Every person can make the effort to reach out to a fellow Jew. You can change the course of someone’s life and make your mark on history – and you never know when the person you touch will himself become an impetus to making history. One decision to reach out and help, one act, can leave your imprint forever and add immeasurable meaning to your life and the lives of your family. The opportunities surround us. Take that one step today and make your mark for posterity. Shabbat Shalom, Rabbi Davies Rabbi@SOICherryHill.org
We are excited to be partnering with Mizrachi World Movement to provide their publication of HaMizrachi Parasha Weekly.
Volunteers Wanted! Volunteers wanted to help with Kiddush - preparation, set up, and clean up! Please contact Yaakov Linder to get involved. _____________
Looking for someone to help with an organizing project in the shul. Please reach out to Chani Wiesman if this is your area of expertise and you may be willing to help out!
Thank you to the volunteers who helped with last week's Kiddush.
Thank you to the volunteers who helped with last week's Seudah Shlishit.
Mazel Tov to Shari & Charles Weg on the birth of a grandson to their children Kayla & Scotty.
Thank you to Marc hess, Jeff Liss, Gila Davis, Shayna Weinberg, Chemmie Sokolic, Sam Tilonsky and JFED Security Officer Sean Dolphin for providing security on Shabbos.
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